More than being motivated by money, I am motivated by having just enough professional stature to give and demand a mature attitude from everyone involved in a transaction. Usually the industry manages to disappoint me, but then, sometimes this loss of patience causes me to contribute to the problem.

Just to make this clear: outside of a dom and sub session in which someone desires, and preferably negotiates, to be abused or humiliated, no-one should be abused or humiliated.

Period.

It's one thing to point out an action or idea that is wrong and explain why in a rational and compassionate manner. It's quite another to become a raging ass. I charge money for my time and services specifically because I require certain positive behaviors in all areas of my life. I refuse to be the ass-end of a humiliatrix scene in the service industry ever again.

Money talks, and the money I charge is attached to a clear set of protocol. Loud and clear, if you don't pay, I don't serve, and you aren't obligated to patronize my time.